I can’t understand why people (primarily women) do not think that they can make it on their own? They go from trying, right into a bad situation for some reason. If people can’t make it on their own, how do they think support from someone that need help themself will make things better. For that matter, if the person you seek help from is not able to help when you need it, but expects you to help when they need it, it is probably not a good decision.
I just do not understand! Some things sure do puzzle me.