This is the plan of attack once we get the green light.
• Foundation pad – excavation and fill
• Foundation – forming, pouring and finishing the slab. This would include any below-slab plumbing and electrical (kitchen island) rough.
• ICF walls (any through-wall rough-in for electrical, plumbing, and HVAC needs to be completed before concrete is poured)
• Interior wall framing
• Ceiling/attic framing & decking
• Roof framing & decking (roofing can be installed immediately afterward or can be scheduled for later. I would, at a minimum, have the roofer install the roofing membrane at this time).
• Exterior Windows & Doors installed (stucco can begin once this is completed)
• Wiring
• Plumbing rough-in
• HVAC rough-in
• Spray foam insulation
• Drywall
• Interior doors and/or trim
• Plumbing set-out (toilets, tubs, etc)
• Lighting installed
• HVAC trim-out
• Cabinets
• Interior Paint
• Tile

We were not going to tile many of the floors right away due to cost. Well we got a great deal on some tiles that Susan really likes. Here is a sampling of them. There are three variations and we will separate them to allow for installation in different areas.
I know some of them are blurry. 🙁

This is the countertops we are now looking at for our bath.

We found a deal on some marble flooring. Checking to see if it is a pain in the ass or not before purchase.

OK, here is the house timeline.
keep in mind that this is the worst case. I think.

Bank status.
The appraisal will be 2-3 weeks.
The title will be 2-3 weeks.

Building status.
Excavation 2 weeks
Foundation 2 weeks
Wall erection 2 week)s
Interior wall erection 2 weeks
Plumbing 2 weeks
Electrical 2weeks
Doors n windows 1 week
Roof n gutters 2 weeks
Drywall 3 weeks
Exterior 2 weeks
Cabinets and floor 2 weeks

Not sure what it adds up to, but it should be no later than May 1st.

Much longer than we thought! Partly because we can not get in until it is completely completed.