There is Bean aging and this round of mom’s cancer is not treatable. Now there are problems with her last cat. This is going to be one hell of a year. Maybe everyone else can stay healthy and keep their life together. It sure gets tough to keep life stabilized when the lows in life when so many and affect both sides of the family. How is it possible to be a rock in the when so much happens. I know we will make it through it, but it sure is going to be a tough year.