We went to the Waverly Inn in Two Rivers for lunch with my sister and her family. After we headed back to Clara’s and I noticed my wedding ring was missing. We headed back to the restaurant and I went in while Susan looked outside. I looked and asked the host if there was gold ring found and she said no. As I left Susan cane in and said that she found it on the ground in the lot. Glad we headed right back someone else may have found it.

While looking up Larry’s address on the river. They died days apart.

DARLYN J. PELLERIN

Darlyn J. Pellerin, age 75, of 2401 Polk St., Two Rivers, died unexpectedly Tuesday morning, March 20, 2001, at Aurora Medical Center, Two Rivers. Funeral Services for both Darlyn and her husband, Lawrence who passed away Friday, March 16, 2001, will be held at 10 a.m. Friday, March 23, 2001, at St. Lukes Catholic Church, Two Rivers. Officiating at the service will be Rev. Larry Seidl with burial to follow at Holy Cross Cemetery, Two Rivers. Darlyn was born February 4, 1926, in Two Rivers, daughter of the late John and Wilamina Reynolds McCown. On July 27, 1990, she married the late Lawrence P. Pellerin in Manitowoc. She resided in Two Rivers for most of her life. She was a member of the Two Rivers Senior Center, St. John’s Ev. Lutheran Church, Two Rivers and was a committee member for AARP. Survivors include two sons and daughters-in-law, Robert G. and Cyndi Mahlik, Manitowoc, Blair and Carol Mahlik, Verona; two daughters and one son-in-law, Elizabeth Smogoleski, Manitowoc, Lynne and Scott Chynoweth, Manitowoc; 19 grandchildren; four great-grandchildren; a special niece, Kathy Marshek, Two Rivers. She is further survived by nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends. She was also preceded in death by an infant son, John. The family will greet relatives and friends at the Klein & Stangel Funeral Home, Two Rivers, from 4-8 p.m. Thursday, March 22, 2001. A prayer service will be held at 7:30 p.m. Thursday. Herald Times Reporter, March 21, 2001 P. A3

The day started at 230 today. Made it to st Louis and departed plane at gate 12. Went to gate 34 and waited. Susan asked what time boarding the flight was and it was in about 5 minutes. At that time we noticed that the gate had been changed to gate 12. Shit we had to go back across the airport. All went fine and we got on the plane. I choose our seats and the guy on the isle seat was kind of a chair hog with the arm rest. Rather annoying.

It’s simple, once you understand how the system works:

1. There are things we want to do & things we have to do. Our brain is an energy manager; a gatekeeper for dopamine. It only wants to give you energy for the things you want to do.
2. ADHD = low mental energy. Because our stockpile of mental energy coins is low, our brain doesn’t want to be generous with doling out energy when we need it; it’s very selective & only wants to let us spend our dopamine cash for the fun stuff we enjoy doing.
3. Anytime you have to do anything, that’s an energy confrontation. Your brain does a quick audit at the beginning of this confrontation, when you decide you have to do something, and says this is a “have to do” task, then puts up a fatigue barrier to dissuade you from doing it. If it’s a “want to do” task, psssh, you can stay up all night surfing the net, reading a book, watching a show, or playing a video game!

Most people aren’t that sensitive to the energy confrontation, which is like a Photoshop slider for “more” or “less”. They do get tired, but can usually just decide to plow through that too. Likewise, high-energy people rarely if ever even see the energy confrontation slider on their radar.

However, when you have chronically low available mental energy from say, ADHD, then we live & die by that slider. If our brain pushes it into “needs more energy” side of the Photoshop slider for something we HAVE to do, then it’s like drawing too much power from an outlet…it trips the mental circuit breaker & we get INSTA-tired! A good way to explain the variable nature of our energy available is Spoon Theory:

• https://archive.ph/NMyTP

The solution is fairly simple:

1. Create a task list
2. Create checklists for how to do the task
3. Have a clean workstation with all of the tools & supplies you need ready to go

The task list must be:

1. Finite
2. Specific
3. Arranged in sequence

So for starters, we need to create discrete assignments:

• https://www.reddit.com/r/kaidomac/comments/sa8zoe/how_to_create_discrete_assignments/

With ADHD, we can also add mousetrap actions to our discrete assignments, because our brain fights us TREMENDOUSLY:

• https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/r0p10r/i_find_it_impossible_to_get_myself_to_shower_sometimes./hlufybq?context=3

Then we can use checklists, like “how to study” or “how to write an essay” to do each task:

• https://www.reddit.com/r/kaidomac/comments/li4gi3/study_resources/

This comic illustrates the challenge of doing simple things:

• https://iraprince.tumblr.com/post/631158826868031488/hey-im-kicking-off-the-adhdinvasion-hashtag-for

This comic is the best illustration of ADHD I’ve ever seen:

• https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHDmemes/comments/pmrh5d/quite_possibly_the_best_explanation_of_adhd_ive/

With ADHD, you are constantly fighting against your brain, which creates 3 effects:

1. Forget
2. Fog
3. Freeze

First, our brain makes us forget, so we just totally space stuff. Second, we get brain fog & things get hazy & hard to grasp onto. Third, once we DO get things defined & sorted out, getting rolling on things using self-directed action can sometimes seem impossible.

Did you ever see those old Bugs Bunny cartoons where he’s operating a railroad switchtrack? That’s basically how our brain operates. If it sees a “must do” task, it switches to the fatigue track. If we hyperfocus on avoidance behavior, it switches to the “yee-haw!” track lol. It makes sense, in an irrational way: it flips a switch based on the type of work it perceives us to be doing, and afaik, there’s no way to fool it lol.

The first track that leads to fatigue is called the emotional track. The second track that leads to getting stuff done is called the logical track. By default, especially when we’re tired, emotions win…we feel clobbered by our task list. The way we switch to the logical track is to switch to using commitment-based productivity instead of emotional-based productivity:

• https://www.reddit.com/r/studytips/comments/s5chi8/motivation_tips/hsz5oib/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

Typically, when we have enough energy, we can “imprint” on the idea of what we’re doing & hammer away, but when we’re tired, or have a more complex or longer project, we need to take the “farming” approach:

• https://www.reddit.com/r/GetMotivated/comments/s2c4ve/comment/hshfyqk/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

Thus, our job is simple:

• Make a finite list of sequenced discrete assignments each day
• Make, adopt, and use checklists to get those tasks done
• Do them within clean, ready-to-go working environments and setup whatever tools & supplies you need so that you can dive directly into the “real work” you want to do

With ADHD, our brains sort of have PTSD (well, C-PTSD) about getting stuff done every day, because we know that:

1. We’re going to get over-stimulated & feel overwhelmed
2. It’s going to be either like a silent tension headache (ex. we get sleepy) or even painful (ex. a headache, physical body drain, etc.) because our brain has switched us to the wrong track for enjoying getting stuff done
3. We’re going to have to stress about it, do avoidance behavior, procrastinate, then cram & stay up late, because we get zero dopamine from the task & zero adrenaline until the last-minute panic sets in

If we create a list of discrete assignments, and then select which ones to work on each day within our working bucket of time, and use checklists & have a nice clean environment to work in so that we don’t get distracted, then that’s a pretty great way to be able to power through getting stuff done each day! Otherwise, our brain knows the usual is going to happen & we’re going to get clobbered & then things just feel baaaaaad.

Attached InformationAdult Advisor: Low Back Pain Exercises (English)
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Low Back Pain Exercises

Exercises that stretch and strengthen the muscles of your abdomen and spine can help prevent back problems. Strong back and abdominal muscles help you keep good posture, with your spine in its correct position.
If your muscles are tight, take a warm shower or bath before doing the exercises. Exercise on a rug or mat. Wear loose clothing. Don’t wear shoes. Stop doing any exercise that causes pain until you have talked with your healthcare provider.
Ask your provider or physical therapist to help you develop an exercise program. Ask your provider how many times a week you need to do the exercises. Remember to start slowly.
Exercises
These exercises are intended only as suggestions. Be sure to check with your provider before starting the exercises.
Abdominal drawing-in maneuver: Lie on your back with your knees bent and your feet flat on the floor. Try to pull your belly button in towards your spine. Hold this position for 15 seconds and then relax. Repeat 5 to 10 times.
Cat and camel: Get down on your hands and knees. Let your stomach sag, allowing your back to curve downward. Hold this position for 5 seconds. Then arch your back and hold for 5 seconds. Do 2 sets of 15.
Quadruped arm and leg raise: Get down on your hands and knees. Pull in your belly button and tighten your abdominal muscles to stiffen your spine. While keeping your abdominals tight, raise one arm and the opposite leg away from you. Hold this position for 5 seconds. Lower your arm and leg slowly and change sides. Do this 10 times on each side.
Pelvic tilt: Lie on your back with your knees bent and your feet flat on the floor. Pull your belly button in towards your spine and push your lower back into the floor, flattening your back. Hold this position for 15 seconds, then relax. Repeat 5 to 10 times.
Partial curl: Lie on your back with your knees bent and your feet flat on the floor. Draw in your abdomen and tighten your stomach muscles. With your hands stretched out in front of you, curl your upper body forward until your shoulders clear the floor. Hold this position for 3 seconds. Don’t hold your breath. It helps to breathe out as you lift your shoulders. Relax back to the floor. Repeat 10 times. Build to 2 sets of 15. To challenge yourself, clasp your hands behind your head and keep your elbows out to your sides.
Gluteal stretch: Lie on your back with both knees bent. Rest your right ankle over the knee of your left leg. Grasp the thigh of the left leg and pull toward your chest. You will feel a stretch along the buttocks and possibly along the outside of your hip. Hold the stretch for 15 to 30 seconds. Then repeat the exercise with your left ankle over your right knee. Do the exercise 3 times with each leg.
Extension exercise
Lie face down on the floor for 5 minutes. If this hurts too much, lie face down with a pillow under your stomach. This should relieve your leg or back pain. If your leg pain continues, try using another pillow underneath your stomach. When you can lie on your stomach for 5 minutes without a pillow, you can continue with Part B of this exercise.
After lying on your stomach for 5 minutes, prop yourself up on your elbows for another 5 minutes. If you can do this without having more leg or buttock pain, you can start doing part C of this exercise.
Lie on your stomach with your hands under your shoulders. Then press down on your hands and extend your elbows while keeping your hips flat on the floor. Keep your back relaxed as you do this. Hold for 1 second and lower yourself to the floor. Do 3 to 5 sets of 10 repetitions. Rest for 1 minute between sets. You should have no pain in your legs when you do this, but it is normal to feel some pain in your lower back.
Do this exercise several times a day.
Side plank: Lie on your side with your legs, hips, and shoulders in a straight line. Prop yourself up onto your forearm with your elbow directly under your shoulder. Lift your hips off the floor and balance on your forearm and the outside of your foot. Try to hold this position for 15 seconds and then slowly lower your hip to the ground. Switch sides and repeat. Work up to holding for 1 minute. This exercise can be made easier by starting with your knees and hips flexed toward your chest.
Prone plank: Lie on your stomach on the floor with your elbows bent and your forearms resting on the floor. Lift your hips and knees off the floor and try to stay in this position while keeping your back flat. Work up to holding this position for at least 1 minute. Do 3 sets.
Exercises to avoid
It’s best to avoid the following exercises because they strain the lower back:
Exercises in which you lie on your back and raise and lower both legs together
Full sit-ups or sit-ups with straight legs
Hip twists
Squats with weights
Sports and other activities
In addition to strengthening your back muscles, it’s helpful to keep your entire body in shape. Good activities for people with back problems include:
Walking
Bicycling
Swimming
Cross-country skiing
Yoga
Tai Chi
Pilates
Some sports can hurt your back because of rough contact, twisting, sudden impact, or direct stress on your back. If you have had low back pain in the past, ask your healthcare provider or physical therapist if you should avoid some of these sports:
Basketball
Football
Soccer
Volleyball
Handball
Golf
Weight lifting
Trampoline
Tobogganing
Sledding
Snowmobiling
Snowboarding
Ice hockey
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Last reviewed: 2018-04-23
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Neck Strain Exercises

Your healthcare provider may recommend exercises to help you heal. Talk to your healthcare provider or physical therapist about which exercises will best help you and how to do them correctly and safely.
Do these exercises only if you do not have pain or numbness running down your arm or into your hand. Do not do any exercises that make your neck pain worse.
Active neck rotation: Sit in a chair, keeping your neck, shoulders, and trunk straight. First, turn your head slowly to the right. Turn it gently until it starts hurting. Turn it back to the forward position. Relax. Then turn it to the left. Repeat in each direction 10 times.
Neck flexion: Sit in a chair, keeping your neck, shoulders, and trunk straight. Bend your head forward, reaching your chin toward your chest. Hold for 5 seconds. Repeat 10 times.
Neck extension: Sit in a chair looking ahead. Tilt your head back so that your chin is pointing toward the ceiling and then bring your head back to the starting position. If this exercise is uncomfortable, try placing your hands behind your neck while you look toward the ceiling. Be sure to sit up straight and keep your neck, shoulders, and trunk straight during the exercise. Repeat 10 times.
Chin tuck: Place your fingertips on your chin and gently push your head straight back as if you are trying to make a double chin. Keep looking forward as your head moves back. Hold 5 seconds and repeat 5 times.
Scalene stretch: Sit or stand and clasp both hands behind your back. Lower your left shoulder and tilt your head toward the right until you feel a stretch. Hold this position for 15 seconds and then come back to the starting position. Then lower your right shoulder and tilt your head toward the left. Hold for 15 seconds. Repeat 2 times on each side.
Isometric neck flexion: Sit tall, eyes straight ahead, and chin level. Place your palm against your forehead and gently push your forehead into your palm. Hold for 5 seconds and release. Do 3 sets of 5.
Isometric neck extension: Sit tall, eyes straight ahead, with your chin level. Clasp your hands together and place them behind your head. Press the back of your head into your palms. Hold 5 seconds and release. Do 3 sets of 5.
Isometric neck side bend: Sit tall, eyes straight ahead, with you chin level. Place the palm of your hand at the side of your temple and press your temple into the palm of your hand. Hold 5 seconds and release. Do 3 sets of 5 on each side.
Head lift with neck curl: Lie on your back with your knees bent and your feet flat on the floor. Tuck your chin and lift your head about 3 inches off the floor, keeping your shoulders flat on the floor. Hold for 10 seconds. Repeat 5 times. Try to work up to holding for 20 to 30 seconds and repeat 5 times.
Head lift with neck side bend: Lie on your right side with your right arm lying straight out. Rest your head on your arm, then lift your head slowly toward your left shoulder. Hold for 5 seconds. Repeat 10 times. Switch to your left side and repeat the exercise, lifting your head toward your right shoulder.
Neck extension on hands and knees: Get on your hands and knees and look down at the floor. Keep your back straight and let your head slowly drop toward your chest. Then tuck your chin slightly and lift your head up until your neck is level with your back. Hold this position for 5 seconds. Repeat 10 times.
Scapular squeeze: While sitting or standing with your arms by your sides, squeeze your shoulder blades together and hold for 5 seconds. Do 2 sets of 15.
Thoracic extension: Sit in a chair and clasp both arms behind your head. If you are unable to reach behind your head, hold your arms across your chest instead. Gently arch backward and look up toward the ceiling. Repeat 10 times. Do this several times each day.
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Last reviewed: 2019-08-22
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